The name on the grave is of the dead person.

Father and son find their way back to each other on the grave of the woman they both loved.

Always before I had stood on the grave but never in it.

What other man, Paul, looks down on his own grave and he in it?

You'll have to leave my body on your parents' graves.

Well, they'd put it on the grave and go away.

Before turning to leave, she places a watch on the grave.

"Have you ever had that feeling of someone walking on your grave?"

For I will place the last stone on his grave.

On her grave, as well, if she let it happen.