"A warning sign is if the partners all want to be president," she said.

My partner and I still wanted to see if there was anything we could do.

But nobody seems sure just what the partners really want.

One partner may want the beach while the other wants the country.

Let's hope your partner doesn't want to lazy on a beach all day!

Fair enough, but how will you always know what partner wants to learn?

When East won with the jack he knew that his partner wanted to transfer the lead.

Many times, she says, one partner simply doesn't want to move that fast.