"I don't want my grandchildren growing up thinking that two men or two women is a normal marriage," she said.

You want your grandchildren knowing you've been sharing long weekends up in Pennsylvania with another man?

"I don't want my grandchildren to forget about me or their clan's history," he says.

He said he wanted his grandchildren to be old enough to understand what he was doing.

Nor did she want her grandchildren to grow up embarrassed by a hugely fat grandmother who could not take proper care of them.

"These are structures that we want our grandchildren, and their children, to experience."

Do you want our grandchildren and great-grandchildren to become such molasses heads?

"I didn't want my grandchildren to see my home as a museum, a monument," she said.

I don't want my grandchildren to pay my bills.

I want my grandchildren to grow up remembering going to grandmother's house.